For better or for worse, Facebook has a knack for bringing people together decades after they've lost touch. Most reunions lead to a few "Hey how are you, cute family!" wall posts, but every now and then, one results in a bona fide fairy-tale romance.
That's what happened for Jaime Benefit, 32, and Jeremy Clayton, 38, of Charleston, S.C., who first started writing to each other while Clayton was serving in Desert Storm 19 years ago.
Pen Pals
When she was 13 years old and growing up in Ohio, Benefit had penned a letter to "Any Soldier" after her mom saw a newspaper ad about supporting the troops.
Clayton, a 19-year-old South Carolina native serving with the 3rd Armored Cavalry Regiment, plucked Benefit's letter from the bunch because she'd used green ink and he liked the way she spelled her name. The two kept writing to each other until the war ended, supporting each other and becoming confidants.
Benefit rediscovered the letters while her parents were remodeling her old room. "We wrote about sports, our home towns, music and general-interest things," Benefit said in an interview with Lemondrop. "I just re-read them for the first time and they are so cute!"
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After scanning through them, Jaime became curious about what had happened to her friend from around the world. She contacted the Department of Defense for information on Clayton, but they had none. Earlier this year, she searched Facebook. Despite there being a sea of Jeremy Claytons registered on the site, she found the right one and sent him a message.
He was happy she'd found him, and the two planned to meet in March. Once they did, their platonic affection from years ago blossomed into a bond much more intense.
"It was definitely love at first sight," Benefit said of the meeting. "You just know."
Shortly after meeting, Clayton proposed. The pair got married July 15 on the beach in Charleston. Even though their romance happened quickly, Benefit (who moved from Ohio to South Carolina) said their families were "very excited" for them.
"The Same, Just Older"
Clayton, who retired from the military, is the manager of Gary's Paint and Body shop, and Benefit works in sales. They still do what brought them together in the first place -- write each other notes.
"I think we're just the grown-up versions of ourselves," Benefit said. "Pretty much the same, just older. We are larger than life to each other."
On the fact that she found her soul mate using Facebook, she said it's "a very personal decision and each situation is different. But if you want to reach out to someone, there is no better time than the present."
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Monday 10 August
By Teresa Flickinger
How about adding the rest of the story about her already being married and leaving her husband to go running after this guy.
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Tuesday 11 August
By Lisa
Teresa you know this because????
Tuesday 11 August
By Teresa Flickinger
Because my husband was the best man at her FIRST wedding and we are still friends with her X-husband. Any more questions?
Tuesday 11 August
By jaychoufans4
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Tuesday 11 August
By kevin
cause maybe that marriage ran its course or she felt he was not truly who she loved .either way you know what happened leave it at thjat & moveon with your life .
Wednesday 12 August
By Brandi K
Jealous much? I would say...yes. Sucks that this Cinderella story happened to this woman (that you probably didn't like to begin with) instead of you. And were you in their home with them? No, you don't know how their life was and is NONE of your or anyone's business. So what her ex-husband is your friend..be there for him instead of spreading his business all over the internet....I'd hate to have you as a "friend"
P.s. I bet your that one lady everyone is afraid to talk in front of in fear of information being spread all over town
Wednesday 12 August
By Unknown
Teresa--You certainly put an end to this fairy tale romance. If you are telling the truth, thanks for putting things into perspective. You think Benefit and her ex-husband might have been having problems?
Wednesday 12 August
By Jess
LOL!
Wednesday 12 August
By Nafeesah
I would be ashamed to call you a friend because why are you telling something that clearly is not your place to do? Jaime wouldnt consider you a friend because you're telling a part of her life that isnt your place to tell and disclose as well. You're pathetic because a friend that respects another person's privacy wouldnt be up on here saying she was married to someone else and left her husband for another man.
Wednesday 12 August
By Kika
Teresa, I smell a lil bit of hating going on here, I think you should worry about your own life and leave someone else's alone. If her ex-husband didn't find the need to put her story out there like that why did you feel the need to. Nothing but pure jelousy in my opinion. I agree you don't know the whole story, unless you've been living with the couple, which I doubt.
Monday 10 August
By S
Facebook still gets on my nerves but at least someone wasn't using for stupid reasons.
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Wednesday 12 August
By Dudley Haas
My wife and I were penpals back during the Viet Cong era. During that time, I wasn't too fonda jane, so I took to wrinkled face Betty (my wife) instead. The first time she laid eyes on my mole, we fell in love and married an hour later. She still rubs my bald head and pledges alligence to me since I'm her bald eagle. I feel so blessed, that we met up agina on spacebook and I'm even happier to have deleted Dave Juke in Bona Vista Calorado.
Tuesday 11 August
By Mick
I think it's a great and romantic story. If you are in the wrong relationship and are not happy with your spouse, it doesn't do either person any good staying in it. These two have a true connection and I think it's great they were able to find each other on facebook.
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Tuesday 11 August
By bailoutsos
Ain't on Facebook, Myspace or Twitter or any other "social network ever to be devised by man/woman" and never will be. Talk to your neighbors.
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Tuesday 11 August
By R W
You sure you're not just making that up to ruin this great story?!
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Wednesday 12 August
By q
you don't know why she left her first husband. friend or not, nobody knows what goes on between a husband and wife.
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Tuesday 11 August
By Meliss
I think that is wonderful. I met my soulmate on Myspace...He and I went to high school together and after graduated went our own ways. I moved from NY to TX got married, then divorced lol. Moved back to NY and my husband found me on myspace. We met for coffee and it was love at first sight, two years later we were married. We now have a 2 1/2 year old son and a baby on the way.
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Tuesday 11 August
By Alyssa
thats great and so cute! congrats on the baby on the way!
Tuesday 11 August
By Ryan
Are you sure you're not making up that she was married before just to ruin this great story? Sound like you might be fabricating this...
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Tuesday 11 August
By Cecilia
@Teresa: that is so scandalous.
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